“What we call the beginning is often the end. And to make an end is to make a beginning. The end is where we start from.”
These words from T. S Eliot frequently came to mind whilst I was walking the Camino de Santiago.
I had undertaken the journey to process some endings and contemplate new beginnings. The loss of loved ones, the transition from being a full-time employee to starting my own coaching business and exploring what more could I do to be of service to others.
Having the time and space to reflect on the past and the future, whilst enjoying the glorious Spanish countryside, was an amazing gift. I began to realise that endings and beginnings may not be synchronous. It was not so much about one door closing and another opening, but the realisation that insights came from spending time in the liminal place, being on the edge of things, exploring possibilities, mulling over options.
My mind began to move away from dualistic thinking of this or that, to both and thinking – the concept that two (or more) opposing ideas can mutually be true and that it is possible to find a way to honour both. Gradually thoughts crystallised and plans began to fall into shape.
It is not a process that can, or should be, rushed.
What transition are you going through?
How does it feel to be in the liminal space between the end and a new beginning?
What are you learning about yourself?
What does your head, heart and gut say to you?
Would it be helpful to explore your thoughts and feelings with someone else to gain greater insight?
If so, let me know.